Learning about wanting to agree

When I am learning about something and then I am enjoying what that person says, I keep thinking…

So…Ok, I like him… so..now It's that the idea about that specifically subject that I must believe, follow and propagate? … and now that I believe on that, I need to keep that path and believe the same things that people that are around me because I do believe in that one, I need to follow and agree with my pack.

Sometimes different people are talking about the same things in very small different types of view, but they are not going to agree just because I know that he doesn't belong in my belives groups, and now I need to discredit and disbelieve everything he says, just because I need to…and there will be the time that someone that don't belong my circle-of-trust-that-we-do-believe-in-the same-things-and-so-we-are-a-communitty-that-supports-each-other, surprisingly we are going to agree on something, that could be a subject of conversation and surprisingly leading to achieve some point that we do agree together. This is a thing, that is going to happen, assumingly that we want to agree, otherwise is just noise, people screaming, cursing each other and wanting to fight and maintaining position, in order to show that I am there for you just because I want to stay there, show my power and of course, oftentimes, getting pay for that.